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What if the strength that built your success is also limiting your growth? In Episode 369 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Amanda Carpenter explores feminine leadership, nervous system safety, and the courage to receive. Discover why armor, control, and constant responsibility can become obstacles—and how leaders can create more capacity through presence, compassion, and trust.

At some point, leadership stops being about being needed and starts becoming about creating capacity in others. In this episode of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Govindh Jayaraman explores the identity shift from necessity to value — and why rescue, control, and heroics can quietly limit growth. The question is not whether people depend on you. It is whether your leadership helps them grow beyond that dependence.