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Self-Doubt
The best Paper Napkin Wisdom conversations on self-doubt, chosen and in order.
Self-doubt rarely announces itself. It sounds like high standards. Amy Bernstein, a writer and book coach, has lived with it her whole life. Her napkin says you can't conquer self-doubt. You can learn to manage it. Let it walk with you, and take the risk anyway. Stefanie Fox works with salon owners. Her rule is narrower. Wait out the doubt day before any big decision.
Comparison feeds it. Warren Rustand says success is relevant only to your own capacity. There is always someone with a bigger boat. Keith Strauss puts self-esteem first. The business, the car and the money follow. Fabiana Bacchini felt inadequate after moving from Brazil to Canada. She rebuilt by focusing on what was going right.
A few of these are my own Edge of the Napkin episodes. One looks at six years I have sometimes counted as missing. Another separates people who speak to your work from people who speak to your worth.
“Don't make decisions on the doubt days.”
Stefanie Fox, Episode 194
Start here: the top 10
1
How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself as a Leader
Episode 380 · Edge of the Napkin
How to stop being so hard on yourself as a leader.
2
You Can't Conquer Self-Doubt, but You Can Manage It: Amy Bernstein
Episode 192 · Amy Bernstein
Amy Bernstein: self-doubt can't be conquered, only managed.
3
How to Stop Feeling Inadequate and Lead From Your Strength: Fabiana Bacchini
Episode 5 · Fabiana Bacchini
Fabiana Bacchini on feeling inadequate and leading from your strengths.
4
Do You Feel Like You're Not Enough as a Leader? A Lesson From John Candy
Episode 316 · Edge of the Napkin
Not enough as a leader? How insecurity makes founders overgive, overexplain and undercharge.
5
Why "I Should Be Further Ahead" Is a Comparison You Can't Win
Episode 392 · Edge of the Napkin
'I should be further ahead': the comparison you can't win.
6
Stop Comparing Yourself to Others: Warren Rustand on Self-Mastery
Episode 113 · Warren Rustand
Warren Rustand: stop comparing yourself to others; success is relative to your own capacity.
7
Don't Make Decisions on Doubt Days: Stefanie Fox on Leading
Episode 194 · Stefanie Fox
Stefanie Fox: don't make decisions on doubt days.
8
Tired of Proving Yourself? Why Leaders Need to Put Down the Stone
Episode 320 · Edge of the Napkin
Tired of proving yourself? Putting down the need to prove the doubters wrong.
9
Release the Outcome: Juan DeAngulo on Founder Anxiety and Self-Worth
Episode 298 · Juan DeAngulo
Juan DeAngulo on founder anxiety and untying self-worth from outcomes.
10
Self-Esteem Is the Key to Your Potential: Keith Strauss on Leading
Episode 30 · Keith Strauss
Keith Strauss: self-esteem is the key to unlocking your potential.
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